tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4498545947494443401.post363516584673393662..comments2023-07-15T09:00:28.846-05:00Comments on A Life Redeemed: KILL ANGER BEFORE IT KILLS YOU OR YOUR MARRIAGEPaulahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06482605092565314258noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4498545947494443401.post-9271038744938494942010-11-29T10:40:51.402-06:002010-11-29T10:40:51.402-06:00I often feel that my anger has stemmed from past h...I often feel that my anger has stemmed from past hurts. Someone has hurt me in the past that I have not forgiven and it has had time to brew inside of me. My propensity to self-defense causes me to be prepared to defend myself against similar future hurt.<br />I have always liked Pipers thoughts on "future grace". <br />I need to fully forgive those who have hurt me in the past and open myself up to pain in the future knowing that God's grace will sustain me.<br />After all, He has forgiven me much.<br />This has involved my family and former church members. I can't be a yielded leader in ministry with any unforgiveness lingering and deceiving me into methods of self-defense that hurt others in order to protect myself. <br />We all have to be willing as believers to die daily.Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03054463754885301503noreply@blogger.com